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  1. In the end Noah told Elle that he wants to make it work which means he wants to have a long distance relationship with her.

  2. I love this movie, it is hard to understand but it is cute and makes you melt a little. I would watch this movie on repeat!!! I absolutely love it

  3. Well, as Krissnamartin said, you have to factor in that Noah got everything he wanted in terms of time, attention, girls, and this sense of being cool. Plus, he was dating someone and seemed pretty happy about it. Also, let’s not forget, in a way, Elle was his twin. Born the same day, raised together, shared similar interest, and whose families are deeply intertwined. In my mind, the truth coming out and him not knowing didn’t hurt because he liked her romantically but because he was lied to by the one person who he thought shared everything with him as he did them.

    Like, in a way, you can see his relationship with Elle as something to compensate for the lack of a relationship he had with Noah.

  4. Don’t you think that Lee loves her as well? When the truth came out, his reaction was pretty strong, more than just a best friend…

  5. “I mean, it is said he wanted one thing to himself that wasn’t Noah’s but, it isn’t even like he saw Elle as a potential girlfriend. So, what gives?“

    I understood this though. If your sibling can have anything and anyone he wants then you would want your friend all to yourself. There would be competition between you and your sibling in the sense that your friend would have to choose who she wants to hang out with more. With the knowledge that Noah gets what he wants, guess who she chooses.

  6. I thought it had something to say about the responsibility of boys towards the girls in their family circle. Elle’s right to autonomy notwithstanding, much as we would like it to not be reality rape culture exists, especially when alcohol and crowds of teen boys gather. I’m not sure that Noah’s protective attitude towards Elle, whom he admits he sees as a little sister type at least at first, and has an awareness that his mother would expect him to look out for her, is wrong. This could be seen as exposing the tension between a young, inexperienced girl wanting her freedom to experiment and a young, experienced boy knowing what that could entail. I think the real dilemma here is for Noah.

  7. That’s the one thing that confused me about the movie. I like happy endings and it just left me hanging .

  8. I took it as, because Noah is in college, across the country, it might just be they were each other’s first love but not who they were meant to be with – in a soul mate way. Plus, in a way, being with Noah was as much about breaking all the rules and just living as it was Elle having many firsts with him.

  9. Probably my new favorite romcom movie for teens, however my question is, is Noah and Elle still dating. If yes, why was it so open ended.

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