Ariana Grande’s Excuse Me, I Love You may not be a classic concert film, but for those who miss seeing live performances, it’ll give you what you need.

Director(s) Paul Dugdale, Story Syndicate
Screenplay By N/A
Date Released (Netflix) 12/21/2020
Genre(s) Documentary, Musical
Duration 1 Hour, 37 Minutes
Rating TV-MA
Noted Cast
Herself Ariana Grande

This content contains pertinent spoilers.

Film Summary

The majority of the film focuses on Grande’s Sweetener tour, specifically the London dates, with minor behind the scenes features that present members of her crew, dance team, and the prep for her various hit songs.

Things To Note | Question(s) Left Unanswered

  • Reason(s) for Film Rating: Cursing, drinking, sexual innuendo in lyrics, but
  • Jump Scares/ Laughs/ Tear-Jerking Moments:
  • Setlist
    1. God Is A Woman
    2. Bad Idea
    3. Break Up With Your Girlfriend, I’m Bored
    4. REM
    5. Be Alright
    6. Sweetener
    7. Side To Side
    8. 7 Rings
    9. Love Me Harder
    10. Breathin
    11. Needy
    12. Make Up
    13. Right There
    14. You’ll Never Know
    15. Break Your Heart Right Back
    16. NASA
    17. Tattooed Heart
    18. Everytime
    19. The Light Is Coming
    20. Into You
    21. Dangerous Woman
    22. Break Free
    23. No Tears Left To Cry
    24. Thank You, Next



How Much Choreography She Does, In Heels, While Singing Live

Is Grande breaking it down like Beyoncé or flying about like P!nk? No. However, in those huge ass heels, with a decent amount of agility, she moves on stage, does choreography that you just can’t pick up and master in a day, and you have to respect that. Especially since she doesn’t necessarily have to.

Take note, Mariah Carey and Adele, two powerful vocalists, show up, maybe move around a bit, but they aren’t trying to keep up with their dancers at all. Yet, Arianna does and never sounds out of breath or comes off like she is doing too much. She simply shows that she is a young woman of multiple talents, and one of them is dancing in heels and singing live in the process.

The Tattooed Heart Performance

Though, when she isn’t moving about, those might be some of her best songs. When there aren’t dancers almost moving about like a distraction, this strange screen in the background, and a bunch of other theatrics.

The prime example of this is when she sings Tattooed Heart, which was reminiscent of her American Music Awards performance many years ago. At that moment, you are reminded that the dancing, bouncing around in heels, that does help her stand out, but at the end of the day, it is the voice and lyrics, and the other stuff is just for fun.

On The Fence

If You Follow Arianna Grande on Instagram Or Keep Up With News About Her, Barely Any Of The Behind the Scenes Stuff Feels Special

Social media and the 24/7 news cycle has made not only biopics seem like a strange idea for any one of the modern generation but has made concert films feel less special. For us, even before Beyoncé, we remember the Madonna concert films and how it felt like you were truly getting to know Madonna, understand why musicians so often married dancers, and it felt intimate. In Excuse Me, I Love You, nothing special really happens.

Ariana Grande talking about Mariah asking her to join a project she is doing

Yes, we do get to see her do her number for Mariah Carey’s “All I Want For Christmas Is You,” but Mariah doesn’t talk to her. Grande is just shocked she was personally asked for. Beyond that, we get stories from what happened on the road, which are tame and feel like IG stories repurposed.


Rating: Positive (Worth Seeing)

If a fan of Grande, this makes a nice early Christmas gift to yourself. But, if you aren’t, and you already know her music, nothing about Excuse Me, I Love You will change how you feel. It isn’t about her recovery from trauma, her whirlwind relationship, nothing like that. All the film is, is a few concerts made into one cohesive production and spare behind the scenes footage that adds very little value.

Yet, despite this paling in comparison to other concert films, if you are a fan and you have time, it is worth seeing.

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  • Negative (Acquired Taste): While one or two elements kept us going until the end, unfortunately, we’re of the opinion this film never reached the potential it was marketed to have.

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How Much Choreography She Does, In Heels, While Singing Live - 83%
The Tattooed Heart Performance - 84%
If You Follow Arianna Grande on Instagram Or Keep Up With News About Her, Barely Any Of The Behind the Scenes Stuff Feels Special - 73%


despite this paling in comparison to other concert films, if you are a fan and you have time, it is worth seeing.

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