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Family Reunion: Season 1, Episode 8 “Remember Macho Mazzi?” – Recap, Review (with Spoilers)

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It’s a 2 for 1 special as Mazzi’s attitude brings up toxic masculinity and Jade entering a beauty pageant leads to a conversation on Black beauty.

Director(s)Kelly Park
Writer(s)Henry “Hank” Jones
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
Haven SheeksAmanda Detmer

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Blood Pressure Blues: Amelia, Maybelle

Amelia has high blood pressure and isn’t taking it as seriously as everyone would want. She still doesn’t eat right, half-asses her exercise, but with Maybelle reminding her their daddy died from heart disease, it gets her in gear. At least it makes her say she’ll take her pills and try harder.

Boys Will Be… Held Accountable: Daniel, Moz, Mazzi, Cocoa

Being that Mazzi isn’t solely into video games, but also singing, baking, and playing the trumpet, naturally he seeks his family admiring his talents. However, with Moz and Daniel downplaying his love for baking, making it sound something worth teasing, it gets to him. Which isn’t to say he may not be teased at school but his dad teasing him is a whole other thing.

So, to counter his dad’s perception of him, he joins the football team and with him excelling as a running back, he gains his dad and uncle’s acceptance. But, problems arise as he starts to go from the Mazzi with diverse interest to someone who hones in on football and the negative attitude which comes with it. Leading to him becoming rude to Cocoa, and the conversation of toxic masculinity coming up. Something Daniel refutes and gets promptly shut down for.

Leading to Moz talking to his son and apologizing for making him feel bad about himself.


Jade stepping from behind the curtain after Cocoa undoes Haven Sheeks' damage.

With Cocoa being a pageant girl, and Jade being a bit insecure, she wants to join the Miss Teen Columbus pageant. Which, in Cocoa’s mind, makes her think they will be a mother/ daughter duo. However, instead, Jade recruited Haven Sheeks to help.

Problem is with Haven, she hones in on Jade’s blackness like it is a trend or a gimmick, and darkens her and makes her look more “Afrocentric” for the pageant. Which freaks Jade out and leads Cocoa to firing Haven and having to fix the physical, and mental, mess Haven made. Luckily, while shaken, Jade isn’t too messed up by the experience and not only bounces back but wins the competition.

Question(s) Left Unanswered

  1. Should we just assume Jeb is traveling when there is no mention of why he is absent?
  2. When is Moz going to find a new house? Maybe even get himself a job?



Cocoa Has A Job

No shade, but with the way Moz talked, for a long time I thought Cocoa’s only job was raising the kids. Which is her and Moz’s job but, it led to the need to question what is there to Cocoa outside of her kids and husband? The answer is, jewelry design. The type which sells for $1500 a pop. Add in, at the end of the episode, pageant coaching, and it seems Cocoa is being fleshed out and shown she brings more to the table than given credit for.

Moz Acknowledging His Mistakes

Moz and Mazzi embracing one another.

Two things Moz does are notable. The first thing is being willing to apologize to his son and acknowledge not only was he wrong, but he hurt his son’s feelings. With what little we’ve seen of Jeb, one could say that Jeb, Amelia especially, weren’t much for apologizing to their kids – no matter what the circumstance. So, in many ways, Moz apologizing for his actions, praising his son’s varied interest, we not only see a positive example of a man but also breaking generational trauma.

For, in the long run, it seems one of the main reasons Moz agrees with Cocoa, when it comes to parenting, is that as much as he loves his parents, he wants a different way to raise his kids. So that, unlike Grace, they don’t wait until they are in their 30s to start having honest conversations with him. To make it so, when they may not need him as a dad, they’d still want him around. And just fostering relationships which will make it so neither he nor Cocoa are seen as last resorts but one of the first people any of the kids will run to if they need to talk, are in trouble, or anything you could name.

Talking About Toxic Masculinity

With that said, number two is addressing toxic masculinity, and while it was shut down quick, you have to appreciate Daniel’s two cents as well. Primarily since, as Jade deals with the issue of Blackness for being fair-skinned, the issue of masculinity in the Black community is also an issue. Heck, take how much Black folks get up in arms over Billy Porter’s outfits. Mind you, the man isn’t hurting no one, just expressing himself and the capabilities of his bank account. Yet as many who love his style, there are others who those like him as toxic just because they don’t see clothes as masculine or feminine. More so, the question is whether it is stylish and maybe comfortable.

The Idea Of Crossover Black & Acceptable Blackness

Between respectability politics, which came from who Haven Sheeks named, to darkening Jade’s skin and putting an afro wig on her, which looked slightly better than her normal hairstyle, red flags were popping up all over the place. Yet, even though the show only skirts the top of the water, you have to love how they are using Jade to address the insecurities of Black girls.

Haven Sheeks (Amanda Detmer) at the pageant, looking a hot mess.
Haven Sheeks (Amanda Detmer)

Granted, in terms of colorism, they are focusing on a fair-skinned girl and not feeling Black enough. Which, considering her friends Missy and the presence of Mikayla, makes you wonder when they going to give the darker-hued girls some shine. But there are two episodes left to address that.

High Blood Pressure Awareness

High blood pressure is common with Black folks, but it isn’t necessarily talked about much. It’s just another hindrance that is often treated as a nuisance that is best left private. Yet, having M’Dear present herself as someone who ignores any and all recommendations might be the in your face wake up call someone may need. I can’t say who, but this is a family show, and if people are watching this together, it may lead to some side-eyes and pressure with a clear example on the screen.

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Season/ EpisodeSynopsisEpisode InformationTopics & Focused Characters
Season 1, Episode 9 “Remember Black Elvis?”With the kids learning their family history, thanks to Jade being shamed about knowing hers, so comes Cocoa and Moz wanting to do something which is a family tradition.
Director(s)Eric Dean Seaton
Writer(s)Howard Jordan, Jr.
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
PaulRegi Davis
Debra SuePerri Camper
FrancineRachel Ferrera
SolomonDemetrius Hodges
Young MaybelleJordy Lucas
Young AmeliaTyra Gabrielle Morrison
TommyAndreas Orrego
Young JebediahNoah Taliferro Spaulding
Fannie JoeEbboney Wilson
  • 1852: Solomon, Fannie Joe, Amelia, Jade, Mikayla
  • 1928: Francine, Tommy
  • 1966 Onward: Amelia, Maybelle, Daniel, Debra Sue, Moz, Cocoa, Paul, Jeb
Season 1, Episode 8 “Remember Macho Mazzi?”It’s a 2 for 1 special as Mazzi’s attitude brings up toxic masculinity and Jade entering a beauty pageant leads to a conversation on Black beauty.
Director(s)Kelly Park
Writer(s)Henry “Hank” Jones
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
Haven SheeksAmanda Detmer
  • Blood Pressure Blues: Amelia, Maybelle
  • Boys Will Be… Held Accountable: Daniel, Moz, Mazzi, Cocoa
Season 1, Episode 10 "Remember When Our Boys Became Men?" [Season Finale]Part 1 of Family Reunion comes to an end with everything that made Columbus seem like a good place to live being undone.
Director(s)Robbie Countryman
Writer(s)Lia Prewitt-Martin
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
EricJaleel White
KatrinaTempsett Bledsoe
KurtCamaron Engels
ReneeJourney Carter
Officer WhitmanJohn Brotherton
  • (No Longer) In Sync: Eric, Katrina, Kurt, Jade, Drew, Moz, Cocoa, Renee, Ava
  • The Talk No One Wants To Have: Elvis, Mazzi, Shaka, Moz, Cocoa, Officer Whitman
  • We Can’t Live Here: Moz, Cocoa, Officer Whitman
Season 1, Episode 7 “Remember The First Day of School”The kids finally head to school, and most of them are quite happy, except Jade who hates the conservative dress code.
Director(s)Eric Dean Seaton
Writer(s)Taylor Vaughn Lasley
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
Principal GlassMark Curry
BrookeAkira Jolie Akbar
MissyDelon Shaw
  • It’s A Wonderful Life: Brooke, Mazzi, Shaka, Moz
  • This Is The South: Missy, Mikayla, Jade, Principal Glass
  • How The South Was Won: Missy, Makayla, Jade, Principal Glass, Amelia, Cocoa
Season 1, Episode 6 “Remember That Crazy Road Trip?”Remember the road trip from Seattle spoken of earlier in the season? This episode reveals what happened.
Director(s)Eric Dean Seaton
Writer(s)Anthony C. Hill
Air Date7/10/2019
  • The Ride From H-E Double Hockey Sticks: Amelia, Jade, Moz, Cocoa, Ami, Mazzi, Shaka
Season 1, Episode 5 “Remember Grace Under Fire?”Despite all the good Cocoa and Moz thought moving to Columbus would do, the kids continue to pick up bad habits. Also, Moz’s sister Grace reveals a secret.
Director(s)Leonard R. Garner, Jr.
Writer(s)Chris Moore
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
GraceErica Ash
  • So Many Secrets: Jade, Mazzi, Ami, Shaka
  • This Is Me: Grace, Cocoa
  • Listen: Grace, Jeb, Amelia, Moz, Jade, Mazzi, Ami, Shaka
Season 1, Episode 4 "Remember When I Lost My Sister"As Cocoa has trouble fitting in, Shaka is forced to realize how much he stands out in Columbus, Georgia.
Director(s)Leonard R. Garner, Jr.
Writer(s)Ralph Greene
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
GraysonJalyn Emil Hall
Sister PattyRoxanne Reese
LilyJaidyn Triplett
  • The First (Un)Official Date: Ami, Lily, Drew, Jade
  • Open(ing) Minds: Cocoa, Amelia, Sister Patty, Maybelle
  • Why Stunt When You Can Be Humble?: Grayson, Shaka, Sister Patty, Elvis
Season 1, Episode 3 "Remember Vacation Bible School"With Jade and Shaka forced to go to Amelia’s bible school, they attempt to embarrass her. As this happens, Cocoa and Moz clash on parenting.
Director(s)Jody Margolin Hahn
Writer(s)Adrienne Carter
Air Date7/10/2019
  • Moz’s Go Kart Racing: Cocoa, Moz, Ami, Mazzi
  • Bible Study Duel: Amelia, Jade, Shaka, Elvis
Season 1, Episode 2 “Remember Charlie Wilson”Amelia’s past is discovered by her grandkids, and let’s just say Amelia “Trimming the mustache” of someone gets Jeb fired up.
Director(s)Eric Dean Seaton
Writer(s)Beverly DeLoatch, Charity L. Miller
Air Date7/10/2019
Introduced This Episode
HimselfCharlie Wilson
  • Spoiled Kid(s): Jade
  • The Legend of Charlie Wilson: Mazzi, Shaka, Charlie Wilson, Jade, Amelia, Jeb
Season 1, Episode 1 “Remember How This All Started?” [Series Premiere]Family Reunion is reminiscent of old school sitcoms in all the best ways.
Creator(s)Meg DeLoatch
Director(s)Eric Dean Seaton
Writer(s)Meg DeLoatch
Air Date7/10/2019
Genre(s)Family, Comedy
Good If You Like
  • Or Rather Miss Black Sitcoms About Family
  • Jokes Around Black Southern Culture
  • Light Commentary About Black Culture
Isn’t For You If You
  • Don’t Like Family-Oriented Comedy
Introduced This Episode
CocoaTia Mowry-Hardrict
AmiJordyn Raya James
MaybelleTelma Hopkins
JebRichard Roundtree
JadeTalia Jackson
ShakaIsaiah Russell-Bailey
MazziCameron J. Wright
AvaLexi Underwood
McKaylaLindsey Da Sylveira
ElvisLance Alexander
DrewNoah Alexander Gerry
AmeliaLoretta Devine
MozAnthony Alabi
DanielWarren Burke
Cocoa Has A Job - 80%
Moz Acknowledging His Mistakes - 90%
Talking About Toxic Masculinity - 89%
The Idea Of Crossover Black & Acceptable Blackness - 85%
High Blood Pressure Awareness - 84%


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