Big Mouth continues to make sure the girls of the show aren’t forgotten as it dives into body image issues and learning to love yourself.

Director(s) Bryan Francis
Writer(s) Kelly Galuska
Air Date 10/5/2018

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What Is Sex?: Steve

It has long been established that Coach Steve, while a nice guy, is also quite a weird one. Well-intentioned in all his interactions, never means any harm to anyone, but still a weird dude. However, unlike Jay, there has been a more consistent effort in making it so Coach Steve didn’t strictly feel like a butt of any joke that could be used against him.

This episode is a bit of an exception as it establishes he is a 47-year-old virgin with barely any concept on how sex works. That is, despite him being the sex ed teacher. But, considering he didn’t know how to read or write well until he met Miss Benitez, what do you expect?

Making you wonder, are they going to try to find him a love interest and will it be someone as kind as Ms. Benitez? For while this show toes the line, there are times when it seems to use characters who feel very real as fodder.


Matthew seeing what does Steve actually know about sex.
Matthew: You do know you can have sex without having a baby.

Like Jay, I just want good things for Coach Steve. Leading me to wonder why the hell did he confide in Mr. Eliezer? I know the man is simple, but shouldn’t he have sought out Miss Benitez? She is the only adult who seems to get him and is nice to him. Much less, probably could help him meet a nice lady to fall in love with. That is, if they don’t make Coach Steve being a 47-year-old virgin into a joke and keep it like that.

If they do, I foresee a sex worker on the horizon. Maybe a nice one, who Steve falls for and likes him back. Yet, there is the possibility they take what little money he has and mistreats him too. For, as shown with Jay, this show might be comedic but it sometimes drops the laughs for real moments. Showing you, as much as the program may make light or fun of a character or situation, sometimes things get real.

Have You Seen Gena?: Gena, Nick, DeVon, Diane, Leah, Andrew

With the girls of the show being at the age to have their period, naturally, some are feeling the other effects of puberty – such as breast development. Some more than others, naturally, but like getting a period, growing breast is awkward, uncomfortable, and a bit painful.

The difference being, you can kind of hide the fact you are on your period. Breasts, on the other hand, unless you are willing to bind yourself, not so much. Such is the case for Gena who everyone is rediscovering the existence of because she is well-endowed. Problem is, for guys like Nick, Andrew, and Jay, the only thing they talk about is her breast. Same goes for the girls, but it’s a mix of envy and slut shaming with them. The guys are just obsessed.

Leading to Diane and Leah having to call out Andrew and Nick during dinner. For while they too appreciate another woman’s breast, they don’t want either of them to treat Gena like the sum of her person are her body parts. Something they both take to heart and exhibit a lesson learned in different ways.

Focusing on Nick, he decides to just talk to her and treat her like a person. Which Gena appreciates but with Nick learning DeVon is into Gena, and she is smitten, that might be the end of that.


Leah chastising Andrew and Nick over their obsession with Gena's boobs.
Leah: Yes, but you can’t treat a woman like her boobs are all she is.

I wonder if, with a bit of editing, this could actually be used to directly market to teenagers. I could imagine this being a late-night FreeForm show. Something that airs after 10 PM or at 11 PM. All you gotta do is cut the nudity, which this episode has a lot of. For while there is cursing, it isn’t necessarily gratuitous.

As for the topic at hand, what you have to love about Nick and Andrew is, as bad as some of their habits and attitudes are towards things, if you talk to them about why it is wrong, they work on it. Diane and Leah addressed their negative behavior and so we saw two routes taken. Nick actively tried to be friends with Gena and thus presented the idea everyone won’t be a douchebag just because she developed before most girls. Also, with the show making it where he did sometimes look at her breast, and make it slip how he truly felt about something, it showed being a better person takes time. It’s not something that happens as soon as you get called out on something.

Love Yourself: Missy, Andrew, Jessie, Connie, Shannon, Dina

Missy being self-deprecating.
Missy: To be candid, Jesse, I’m gross and flat.

With Gena gaining so much attention for her body, it makes the other girls a bit self-conscious. Especially missy for she hasn’t developed yet. Which feeds into her dark side picking her apart with shame. As for Jessie? She is a little jealous but her issues are all focused on Dina. Especially since Dina is making her mother feel self-conscious, which she never did with her dad.

But, for Missy, thanks to going to a nude Korean Spa with her mother, leading to them and us seeing various type of female bodies, she gains an acceptance of herself. To the point she walks about feeling empowered in the locker room.

Now, when it comes to Jessie? While she is happy to see Missy feeling empowered and no longer self-conscious, sadly she doesn’t get how her mother may feel the same way. Hence her going off on her in such a way that leaves Shannon crying and Connie giving Jessie a gold star.


Connie proud of Jessie for telling off her mom.
Connie: That was beautiful. No Notes!

Connie isn’t as good of a hormone monster as Maury. Just take note of how Connie has Jessie handle Shannon vs. how Maury has Andrew handle Marty. Connie pushes Jessie to flip out just because. Maury, on the other hand, he needed a reason to have Andrew flip out. Otherwise, he lets Andrew be weird and just watches over him and create the occasional awkward moment.

Which seems kind of strange to me. On one hand, this show is one of the few animated adult ones which doesn’t sexualize female characters for the male gaze. Yet, with Connie, as much as I get not being a women means there are some things I just won’t get, I don’t understand why Jessie needs to flip out like she does.

When it comes to Shannon cheating on her dad, with Dina, I get that. But her going in on her mom’s looks after her mom gave her the tools to be fine with who she is? That seemed a bit f***ed up. To the point I can’t say I fully understand it. Especially since it isn’t like Jessie seems all that close to her dad. So I guess she is just acting out for the sake of showing she can mess up her parents’ lives as well.

Oh, and did I mention Andrew? Yeah, he apologizes to Missy for his part in googling at Gena. Which I feel is important for while Gena was the main victim of all this, there were multiple casualties. And so Andrew stepping up showed him taking responsibility for what he said and also being an enabler of the situation. Giving me hope they might get back together…


  1. The handling of body issues with both the girls and the boys.

On The Fence

  1. The need to question if Jessie is taking things a bit far when it comes to Shannon.
  2. How they may handle Coach Steve’s sexual awakening, for a lack of a better term.

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Season/ EpisodeSynopsisEpisode InformationTopics & Characters
Season 3, Episode 10 “Disclosure the Movie: The Musical”A new hormone monster is introduced, and while Mirror Missy doesn’t appear, it might be because she integrated with the real Missy. Also, the Fab Five appear.
Director(s) Bob Suarez
Writer(s) Emily Altman, Victor Quinaz
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • Reinventing Coach Steve: Steve, Antoni, Jonathan, Karamo, Tan, Bobby, Jay
  • Disclosure – The Movie Turned Musical: Jessi, Gina, Matthew, Ali, Missy, Nick, Andrew, Mr. Lizer, Lola, Mona, Lars
  • The Return of The Steve: Steve, Mr. Lizer, Lola, Jessi, Nick, Andrew, Missy, Mona, Connie
Season 3, Episode 11 "Super Mouth" [Season Finale]It’s the end of an era, or just 7th grade if you want to be lame and less dramatic. But, nonetheless, things may never be the same.
Director(s) Bryan Francis, Mike L. Mayfield
Writer(s) Gil Ozeri
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • The End Of An Era: Jessi, Nick, Andrew, Missy, Lars, Jay, Caleb
Season 3, Episode 6 “How To Have An Orgasm”The importance of the female orgasm is explored, Jay overstaying his welcome at Nick’s house, alongside dick pic etiquette.
Director(s) Bob Suarez
Writer(s) Emily Altman
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • Somewhere Over The Rainbow: Luda, Nick, Jay
  • A Chode: Cherry, Maury, Andrew, Marty, Barbara
  • Love Like This Before: Jessi, Jessi’s Vagina, Judd, Connie, Missy, Shannon, Dina
Season 3, Episode 7 “Duke”The life of the Ghost of Duke Ellington is explored as the boys hound him for the story of his first time.
Director(s) Bryan Francis
Writer(s) Gil Ozeri, Jak Knight
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • The Momma’s Boy Era: Duke, Daisy
  • Welcome To Atlantic City: Duke, Harvey, Maury
  • The Birth Of The Duke: Duke, Daisy, Andrew, Jay, Nick
Season 3, Episode 8 “Rankings”The middle school kids are rocked by a new kid, voiced by Ali Wong, introducing pansexuality as well as lists of who is the hottest in 7th grade.
Director(s) Joel Moser
Writer(s) Kelly Galuska
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • The List: Devon, Nick, Jessi, Devin, Andrew, Gina
  • Let’s Talk About Sex(uality): Jay, Ali, Caleb, Matthew
  • Siri, Play “By Myself” by Judy Garland: Jessi, Nick, Andrew, Judd
Season 3, Episode 9 “The ASSes”Standardized test pressure leads to the Depression Kitty’s return and Jay doing what he usually does: Things that go against his interest.
Director(s) Kim Arndt
Writer(s) Joe Wengert, Max Silvestri
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • I Just Needed Someone To Care: Jay, Diane, Elliot
  • The Pressure Is On – For Some: Depression Kitty, Shannon, Greg, Andrew, Jessi, Jay, Missy, Nick
  • The Side Effects Of Pursuing A Secure Future: Missy, Andrew, Nick, Jay
Season 3, Episode 5 “Florida”Nick and Andrew head to Florida, and between cousin love, babies with guns, and crazy people, we get a lot of what Florida is known for.
Director(s) Kim Arndt
Writer(s) Victor Quinaz
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • Little Orphan Jay: Elliot, Diane, Jay
  • Florida Is Crazy: Cheryl, Nick, Andrew, Barbara, Marty, Skip, Lewis
  • Getting The Hell Out Of… Well Hell: Cherry, Nick, Andrew, Menopause Banshee, Barbara, Marty
Season 3, Episode 4 “Obsessed”It’s a very homoerotic episode of Big Mouth as Jay and Missy collaborate, Matthew has his first kiss, and we learn about Elliot’s moisturizing regimen.
Director(s) Joel Moser
Writer(s) Kelly Galuska, Jaboukie Young-White
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • Soft Daddy & The Mobile Phone: Elliot, Diane, Andrew, Cellsea, Nick, Judd, Cellsea, Maury
  • Are We Like, Friends?: Missy, Jay
  • Homoerectus: Aiden, Jessi, Matthew, Maury, Edward, Kimberly
Season 3, Episode 3 "Cellsea"Jay learns the spectrum of gender and sexual identities, as phone addiction cripples everyone’s ability to socialize.
Director(s) Bryan Francis
Writer(s) Joe Wengert
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • The Birch Family Phone Addiction: Nick, Elliot, Diane
  • Socializing Without Social Media: Aiden, Andrew, Jessi, Matthew, Maury
  • So Many Choices: Jay
Season 3, Episode 2 “Girls Are Angry Too”Big Mouth returns, and thanks to the stupid action of the boys, the girls get punished. Leading to Missy deciding it is time to let her dark side out.
Director(s) Bob Suarez
Writer(s) Hayley Adams, Joellen Redlingshafer, Kelsey Cressman
Air Date 10/4/2019
  • Turkey Basting: Jay
  • Girls v. Boys: Nick, Jessi, Devin, Lizer, Andrew, Jay
  • Welcome To The Dark Side: Missy
Season 3, Episode 1 “My Furry Valentine”My Furry Valentine not only gives Matt a storyline but introduces us to how complicated Nick and Connie will be as a pair.
Director(s) Kim Arndt, Bob Suarez
Writer(s) Emily Altman, Victor Quinaz, Jaboukie Young-White, Gil Ozeri
Air Date 2/8/2019

Big Mouth: Season 2 – Recap/ Review

Big Mouth season 2 tackles shame, Planned Parenthood, female pleasure, and so much more. All the while seeming like it is more so edutainment than just raunchy good fun.

Season 2/ Episode 10 "The Department of Puberty"

From seeing the world where the Hormone Monsters and Shame Wizard comes from, to meeting Nick’s new hormone monster, the finale packs a punch.

Season 2/ Episode 9 “Smooch or Share”

As many characters face the truth, accept it as well, it loosens the power the monsters and wizard has over them. Perhaps making things worse.

Season 2/ Episode 8 “Dark Side of the Boob”

The Shame Wizard goes into overtime and it seems Connie, Tyler, and Maury aren’t willing or able to do a thing about it.

Season 2/ Episode 7 “Guy Town”

Matthew finally gets recognized for more than his sass and with as Nick finally gets a new hormone monster!

Season 2/ Episode 6 “Drug Buddies”

Jessie gets Nick high, Lila and Andrew become a thing and the Shame Wizard finally gets what he wanted.

Season 2/ Episode 5 “The Planned Parenthood Show”

It’s a sex ed episode, which features all the things Planned Parenthood does — beyond abortions. A fraction of the services they provide.

Season 2/ Episode 4 “Steve The Virgin”

Steve has the opportunity to have sex, with someone who isn’t a sex worker, and the Shame Wizard tries to claim another child.

Season 1/ Episode 1 “Ejaculation”

Big Mouth seems like it will be the few Netflix series, this year, to deserve a long lifespan on the network.

Season 1/ Episode 2 “Everybody Bleeds”

It’s a big day for Jessi. Nick has seemingly evolved into her boyfriend and then she meets the Hormone Monstress.

Season 1/ Episode 3 “Am I Gay?”

In this episode of "Big Mouth," Andrew questions his sexuality as Jessi and Nick devolve their relationship back to a friendship.

Season 1/ Episode 4 “Sleepover: A Harrowing Ordeal of Emotional Brutality”

The boys and girls go to their respective sleepovers and while the boys avoid jizz, Jessi is just trying to avoid hurting people’s feelings.

Season 1/ Episode 5 “Girls Are Horny Too”

After so much time on Big Mouth spent on hearing the boys talk about porn and masturbation, it’s ladies night.

Season 1/ Episode 6 “Pillow Talk”

Two kids from Westchester head to the big city and learn what secrets are hidden within it. Meanwhile, Jay gets his pillow pregnant.

Season 1/ Episode 7 “Requiem for a Wet Dream”

As Jay continues to be abused, Coach Steve makes a friend. Also, Andrew and Missy confess their feelings for one another.

Season 1/ Episode 8 “The Head Push”

Consent is a big focus on this episode of Big Mouth as we learn about someone commonly known as “The Head Pusher.”

Season 1/ Episode 9 “I Survived Jessi’s Bat Mitzvah”

Between kids and parents or lovers, there aren't many happy relationships. But, there's always ghosts, friends & your friend’s mom.

Season 1/ Episode 10 “The Pornscape”

Hasn’t it all led to this? A masturbation addiction and a bunch of emotional boys doing foolish things to deal with their hormones?

Season 1 – Recap/ Review

Big Mouth presents the vulgarity of South Park, alongside having the type of heart that the Disney Channel has recently afforded its shows.

Season 2/ Episode 1 “Am I Normal?”

We pick up where we left off and Nick is starting to wonder if puberty may ever start to kick in.

Season 2/ Episode 2 “What Is It about Boobs?”

Big Mouth continues to make sure the girls of the show aren’t forgotten as it dives into body image issues and learning to love yourself.

Season 2/ Episode 3 “The Shame Wizard”

It seems the being that haunted Missy finds its way to Andrew. As that happens, Jessie becomes more rebellious and Nick tries to woo Gina.

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