Background (6.3): Her mom is from Trinidad and she was raised by her dad from age 6 (and he, unfortunately, has passed on)_
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There is a difference between connection and chemistry.
— Joi (6.9)
Ace
Ace is a 37-year-old philanthropist who was married 10 years ago, with the marriage lasting two years and is now divorced. In her spare time, she enjoys doing yoga.
Kids? (6.3): She has a 9 and 7 year old, and one is a boy and the other a girl
Dietary Habits (6.3): She is vegan
Older Men Might Be Her Thing (6.4): Her husband was 14 years older than her
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Eric
Eric is a 44-year-old private celebrity chef who is the child of a preacher who was married at 18, but it only lasted 4 years. But, with his parents still married to this day, he wants to achieve a relationship like that.
1st Generation (5.11): Frank is the first in his family born on American soil and they are originally from the Korle Gonno, Korle Bu area, near Accra, in Ghana.
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Corey
Corey is a 40-year-old gym owner and body transformation expert who boasts going on over 100 dates in the past 12 months, thanks to his copy-paste online dating routine. However, while he is good on the first date, the second date is a struggle.
Red Flags (5.1): He doesn’t like when women check their cell phones, get verbally disrespectful, or let themselves go.
Eliminated Episode 5
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Phil
Phil is a 37-year-old entrepreneur whose focus is consulting for government agencies, alongside running his own marketing and public relationships company. His last relationship was 2 and a half years and ended due to her not being ready for the next step. Currently, he has been single for a year and a half, and just lost his mother a few years ago. Also, he has no kids.
What’s Your Job Title Again? (5.2): She is a technical program analyst and life coach, with a focus on intimacy coaching
Ethnic Mix (5.2): She is half Trinidadian and half Mexican
Childhood Trauma (5.2): Notes she has abandonment issues due to her parents’ divorce which took over 3 years and transformed her affectionate childhood into a tumultuous one.
Love Language (5.3): Physical Touch
Love Language (5.4): Words of Affirmation and discrete PDA
Elimination (5.11): Self-eliminates
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Courtney
Courtney is a 30-year-old marketing consultant who has one child but is no longer with the child’s father due to him not accepting they aren’t who they were when they met 5 years ago.
Kamil is a 42-year-old teacher who has taught within the performing arts field for 13 years. But, while accomplished in her professional life, her personal life has been sketchy. For example, she has been engaged at least 3 times but ended each engagement. The reason? Well, she doesn’t reveal that but it seems she has a pattern of ending the relationship when it gets to be a bit much.
Education & Experience (5.2): Is working on her doctorate and directed plays and musicals in the past
Degrees (5.4): Has two masters and a bachelors
Minister In The Family (5.3): Grandfather is a minister
Mommy Dearest (5.6): She has a son
Self-Eliminated: Episode 10
Multiple Personalities (5.13): Notes she has two alternative personalities. One is Shay-Shay, who is a firecracker, and then Olivia, who is the emotional one.
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Cornelius Bryant
Cornelius is a 39-year-old electrical engineer who would describe himself as a country boy and whose last relationship was about a year ago. But, he is ready to love and wants to get married and have a long-lasting relationship like his parents, who have been together 38 years. And between his faith in God and abstinence, he is hoping to be worthy of the right woman.
Mumen is a 36-year-old singer/songwriter who is very big on spirituality and wants a God-fearing man who will take initiative and practice abstinence until marriage.
Love Language (5.3): Acts of Service are her love language
Relationship With Father (5.4): Is strained
Family Planning (5.8): With her not necessarily being close to her family, she hopes to, with her partner, have 3 kids and form that kind of bond between them.
Family Background (5.11): Her dad’s family is from West Africa, specifically Cameroon
Number Of Kids Desired (1.12): 3
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Aisha Finch
Aisha is a 38-year-old hair salon owner whose previous relationship was a marriage that lasted 11 years until he cheated on her. Together, they have two kids, one boy, and one girl, and Aisha is hoping to meet someone a little bit sensitive, maybe a touch of shy.
Middle Child (5.5): She is the third of eight children
Astrological Sign (5.5): She is a gemini
Hobbies (5.6): Loves to cook, with lobster being her favorite dish
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I tell him all the time to stretch because when you let them stretch, then you see how far they wander. You’re gonna see if that rubber band gonna pop back, or you’ll see if that rubber band gonna snap and pop.
— Aisha (5.7)
Walter Maxwell Jones
The self-proclaimed reformed thug is an entrepreneur and 46 years of age, who is a widow. He was with a woman for 9 years, back when he was a thug and not necessarily a gentleman, and by the time he got her life together, and she graduated college, they were married a year and a half, and then she died.
How? Well, she had a cyst on her ovary, about the size of a grapefruit, and the surgery didn’t go well.
Love Language (5.8): Quality Time and Physical Touch
Eliminated: Episode 10
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Sabrina
The mother of an 8-year-old daughter, 48-year-old fashion designer, Sabrina, is just trying to find a man, a good man, who isn’t already married and has a pleasurably sized penis to spend life with.
Caretaker (5.2): She helps to take care of her 80-year-old parents and doesn’t really have an outlet since she is a single mom doing a lot on her own and while her mother helps to take care of her dad, it’s a lot.
Private Dancer (5.9): She was a dancer for 10 years
Reasoning (5.10): Between being bullied while growing up, combined with having to figure out a way to make money at 18/19, that’s why she did it.
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[…] don’t rush into anything just because somebody said the right things to you at the right time.
— Sabrina (5.10)
Donta Smith
Donta is a deputy superintendent and at 38, he has 3 children by 3 different women. In his spare time, he likes to hike, meditate, avoids clubs, and lives a vegan lifestyle. Also, he is originally from Chicago and his last relationship ended due to it being long distance.
Children Diversity (5.6): He has two girls and one boy.
Love Language (5.8): Depending on the person, his love language is physical touch
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Carrington Barbour
The 33-year-old marking firm CEO, Carrington, is trying to end his string of situationships and find himself something real. His last relationship was 6 years old and produced his daughter, and it seems his career as a nightlife entrepreneur/ restaurateur has made dating difficult. But, he sees himself as a chameleon who likes an alpha woman that knows how to switch it up just like him.
Relationship History (5.3): Has never been in a relationship
Eliminated: Episode 3
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Tyrone Wilson
Tyrone is a 44-year-old cyber security CEO who has been single for 3 years and is a military man (with his career starting right out of high school). He comes to Ready To Love with a few issues due to seeing his mother cheat on his dad over the course of his parents’ 20-year relationship.
Places He Has Been Stationed (5.2): Include Korea, and he speaks some
Post-Military (5.3): He has PTSD and Anxiety (which has led to two hospitalizations)
Tours (5.3): Was deployed twice
Eliminated: Episode 5
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Lamont Wilkins
44-year-old Lamont works in cyber security and was married when he was 22, until his wife cheated. When not working, you can find him at an open mic night due to his love of spoken word.
Kheri is a 38-year-old interior designer who got married at 21 and was divorced by the end of her 22nd year. Since then, she has mostly found good time or hangout buddy-type relationships which is unfortunate for her since she is an all-in kind of woman. The type who will give you wifey privileges while she is your girlfriend.
A 44-year-old professor of marketing, Libba has been unhappily married for a good part of her life and wants to experience love the way she knows it should be with a man who loves God. However, it has been tough since dating in DC is competitive and she doesn’t have a big ol’ booty. She does like to cook though.
Marriage background (5.2): She got married at 19 and divorced 20 years later
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Nai’im
Na’im is a 40-year-old programmer whose ex was in the military, and he notes he likes his women fit, highly melanated, who wear out their natural hair and put on very little makeup. Being from the Caribbean is also a notable plus for him.
Tisia is a 33-year-old tech startup founder who likes masculine, bearded men who are medium ugly, since she doesn’t like the work it takes to deal with a fine guy. But, with that said, she wants a provider, alpha male type who wants kids and a family, and is going to spoil her.
Frick and Frack: Chrisantheium and Stacy’s group nickname
Other Noteworthy Information
Length Of Time (4.12): This all took place over 10 weeks
Joel
42-year-old Joel is a Drilling Fluids Engineer who has fraternal twins (a boy and a girl) who are 8 years old. He enjoys working out, loves living a carefree life, has a few tattoos and some of his favorite singers are Janet Jackson, Whitney Houston, and Anita Baker.
Jason is a 36-year-old teacher who spent a good portion of his life as a basketball player, and he notes he even went pro. However, in modern times, he focuses on being a teacher and his youth organization “I-AMM” which he has run for over 8 years.
Workplace Romance (Casting Special): Jason shares that he dated a co-worker who was cheating on him in such a way that everyone knew.
Familiar Faces (4.2): Jason was Alexis’ son’s basketball coach at one time.
Michael Phelps Ain’t Got Nothing On Me (4.3): Reveals he was on the swim team and went to diving school in the past
Asking All The Right Questions (4.3): After dealing with depression, he went to therapy
Reunion (4.13): Ends up with Liz
Height and Shoe Size (5.1): Jason is 6’4 and wears a 13 to 14 sized shoe
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Ron
Ron is a Regional Sales Director, with a focus in corporate sales, with two side hustles. One is running a small car lot and the other importing caskets. One of the reasons he is single deals with feeling there are too many options in Houston alongside seeing how his father’s divorce affected his dad.
Dad’s Divorces (Casting Special): It is noted his dad was divorced twice.
Background (4.4): Was in jail at 18 and was from a bad part of Detroit.
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Eliminated Episode 9
Verneashia
Verneashia talking about when she left her ex of 8 years
39-year-old Verneashia is a salon owner and mother of 4 daughters she co-parents with her ex. Currently, she has been single for 10 years, and her last relationship was with the father of her daughters. They were together for 8 years, 5 of which she was a stay-at-home mom, and she notes, while he was a great father and provider, her ex, he also was controlling and a cheater.
Chrisantheium (Chris) laying down how she plans to play the game
Despite being a social butterfly, Chris has had trouble maintaining her relationships due to being a flight attendant. For if it isn’t the man being insecure, it is her constantly traveling and no one deciding to pick up the phone and maintain a connection.
Ethnic Background (4.2): Notes she is half-Italian, and grew up in Italy
How Long In Italy (4.6): She notes she grew up in Italy until she was 7
Relationship With Father (4.6): Notes she didn’t meet her dad until 6 years ago
Met The Mom (4.13): Met Ron’s mom
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Eliminated Episode 7
Alexis “Fly” Jones
Alexis ‘Fly’ Jones talking about how her life was when she was a pastor’s wife.
A TV news producer in Houston, Alexis’ nickname “Fly” comes from having a notable style throughout her life and her usual demeanor. The reason she is single comes from being unable to work it out with her ex, who was a pastor in Houston, Texas, and that she was with for 5 years. Now, what went wrong? Well, it was not feeling like she was a priority. As for modern times? Well, the problem deals with men more so approaching her for sex than a relationship. Which, with her having a son, and wanting a The Notebook type romance, sex and lack of commitment aren’t what she is looking for.
From Pass Christian, Mississippi, 39-year-old Stacy formerly was a basketball player’s wife for 10 years but is now divorced. Her focus now has been her insurance and financial services career alongside her 3 kids, of which the oldest is her 19-year-old son.
Previous Relationship Length (4.2): While married for 10 years, she notes the relationship was 17 years.
What Kind of Insurance? (4.2): She does do life insurance
Divorced When (4.5): Four years ago
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There’s a difference between transparency and trust.
— Stacy (4.4)
Eliminated Episode 5
Dedrick
Dedrick is a chef who is 47 years of age, has two daughters, one 26 and the other 21, and is a grandfather of a 3-year-old. He has been single for two years and feels not having a partner is holding him back, but with encountering too many women who wish to be sugar babies, he has been hesitant to date.
Though he does note, when it comes to being with him, the woman should be willing and ready to have a child – with him specifically aiming for a son.
Single since 2004, so between 16 to 17 years, 38-year-old Andrea’s struggle with dating is similar to Chris’ due to being a flight attendant. However, unlike Chris, Andrea makes it clear she doesn’t get hit on much, which is part of the reason she is single.
How Long Has She Been A Flight Attendant? (4.2): 6 years
Reunion (4.13): Is dating Christian
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Eliminated Episode 3
Liz
Liz reflecting on being single 17 years
The CEO of her own production company, Liz is ready to love after putting it off to focus on her career. Making her, like Andrea, single for nearly 17 years! But, while Andrea’s last relationship was in college, for Liz it was right after high school.
As for why she remains single? Cheating and the men she meets liking polyamory just don’t work for her. She prefers something more old school. A guy who is spiritual, not religious, but does have a relationship with God. Which she hopes to find on her time on Ready To Love.
Side Hustles (4.2): While Liz being a CEO of a production company is focused on, with David, she notes she was in a gospel singing group, and even sang with him a bit.
Abstinence (4.4): Is practicing abstinence until marriage
Understanding the 17 Year Gap (4.4): While she wasn’t in a real relationship for 17 years, she was in situationships
Reunion (4.13): Is with Jason
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AJ
AJ noting he has grown as a person
From the great city of Chicago, AJ is a 38-year-old music producer who has been in the industry for over 15 years, and because of that, he doesn’t date in the industry – anymore. As for what he is looking for? He wants a woman who is family-oriented for he’s ready to settle down. Especially since, in his 11 years in Houston, he has run through many women and even says, not in a joking way, there is a chance he may know one of the women cast for this season.
A Houston native, born and raised, Troy is a regional manager for a GPS company whose pickiness seems to be getting in his way. For with him only liking small and petite women, women who work out and aren’t full-figured, it seems he has struggled to find what he is looking for and maintaining a connection when he does find them.
37-year-old development manager, Ida, has over 20 years of relationship experience and her last serious relationship was 2 years ago, and the relationship lasted 3 years. The problem with it? He changed up on her. As for why she is here? Well, with being raised by a teen mom she was raised with the understanding that she doesn’t need to have a man. Yet, with her wanting kids, and it being clear she is loved enough to be proposed to, multiple times, now she just wants to find a man she would accept the proposal of.
Vicki (4.2): Growing up, Ida like the robot from Small Wonders named Vicki, and so she made that her nickname throughout her childhood.
Reunion (4.12): Is dating Khaleel
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Eliminated Episode 3
Tressa
A Chicago native, Tressa is 42 and is a comedienne and entrepreneur. She was married for 13 years and got married at 19, and since then she has struggled with finding only men who are “hobo-sexual” aka homeless, asking her out. Also, she has had issues with just being the breadwinner in past relationships, making it so, she just wants someone on her level. Someone who her daughter, who she is close to, can love and approve of.
Comedy Career (4.3): Has been doing comedy 6 years
Absence (4.13): Had COVID, so couldn’t attend the reunion
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Eliminated Episode 5
Christian
Christian talking about why he is ready to love
From a side hustle in the events industry to his job of being a mailman, for over 6 years, Christian is a 36-year-old who is ready to love. Especially since there was a time when he was a ho and he feels that chapter is over.
Sobriety (Casting Special): After a really bad night, that included passing out at a stop light, Christian has been sober for 3 years.
I Want To Know What Love Is (4.2): Notes he is married, doesn’t have kids, or wants them, and didn’t have a positive representation of relationships growing up.
Eliminated (4.2): Due to being timid compared to the rest of the men
Match (4.13): Ended up with Andrea
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Khaleel
A 41-year-old teacher in Houston, Khaleel was married before, but the circumstances are very different from his fellow castmates. His marriage was born from having a near-deadly car accident in 2013, and the woman he was with, a United Kingdom native, taking care of him and proposing the idea of marriage. This led to him moving to the UK and after dealing with a lack of stability there, it being decided to annul the marriage. Thus, he went back to Houston and is now ready to love. Specifically, someone dark-skinned, full-figured, with a Lauryn Hill or Erykah Badu vibe.
With her job being a criminal attorney, Amber has spent a good portion of her life committed to her job and not looking for someone who expects or wants to argue after she spent all day doing so. What Amber really wants is someone who can allow her to be the loving and nurturing person she sees herself as because keeping the wall up is becoming tiring.
The Struggle Is Real (4.2): One of the issues Amber has faced in the past is that she is more logical than emotional, and that leads to men sometimes feeling insecure, especially when you combine her commitment to her job. Thus, she feels she needs a man who is sure about himself.
Adoption (4.4): She was adopted when she was 5, and has a two year older sister
Reunion (4.13): Is with Kris
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David
David noting he is ready
44-year old David is a real estate agent, real estate investor, and also officiates weddings on the side. He is someone very big on family, as he has 7 siblings, and 4 kids of his own. Also, he has been married twice and is still dealing with his parents divorcing after 40 years.
As for why he is single? Well, being picky. Though rather than present the idea it is over something superficial, he makes it appear to be he wants someone who isn’t just complimented for her beauty but how sweet she is.
Till Marriage (4.3): Believes in waiting until marriage before having sex
Background (4.4): He grew up with a very strict household where girls couldn’t call the house, so when he went to college, he left the church and went all out. But he returned to being a prodigal son after college.
2nd Marriage (4.4): She walked out on him after 1 year
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I’ll take you in the frame that you are.
— David (4.4)
Eliminated (Though He Pretends He Self-Eliminated) Episode 9
Kyra
34-year-old Kyra is an attorney whose last major relationship was with her college sweetheart, and the relationship lasted 9 years. Why did it end? Can’t you guess? He cheated. Because of that, she stopped dating for a year but is ready to get back in the game and find herself a nice dark-skinned man. One that doesn’t mind she can be both classy and ratchet, depending on the situation.
Bad Romance (4.2): Notes she previously dated AJ but due to him being unable to pay for the second date (his card was declined), and not telling her about it, she felt he was cheap and made sure to spread that around.
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Kris (KG Smooth)
Kris noting he is happy to be back on Ready To Love
Kris is a 42-year-old man known for his radio persona, KG Smooth, and his radio career spans 20+ years. But, he isn’t just an entertaining on the radio, he is also a social activist whose last relationship was in 2012. So he is in dire need of a woman with some melanin.
The Return (Season 4: Casting Special): Is the first member of a past cast to return to Ready To Love.
Siblings (4.4): His father has 11 children by 9 women
Reunion (4.13): Is with Amber
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Season 3 Cast Members
Note: The casting special was the premiere for Season 3 and the season roughly took place over 10 weeks (according to Nephew Tommy in episode 11).
Also, Ready To Love: Last Resort is treated as a season here at Wherever I Look, rather than an extension of season 2 (or spin-off)
Khalfani
Khalfani is a 38-year-old personal trainer and a professional bodybuilder – one that has gone so far as to compete in the Mr. Olympia competition (A competition made famous by Arnold Schwarzenegger).
The 42-year-old Rashid is a luxury car broken who has been divorced for 2 years and the marriage lasted 10 years. From that marriage, he had a 7-year-old son.
The relationship oriented Joy is 38, a management consultant, no kids, and likes a tall man, with nice teeth, loves the lord (naturally), and knows what he is doing.
Divorcee (Casting Special): Was married for 3 years and knew she made a mistake in week 1.
Friends (3.6): Has been friends with Kris since 2015
A Man’s Role (3.6): Doesn’t mind a house husband
Eliminated (3.10): Eliminated herself in episode 10 after the death of her sister.
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Adriana
This 31-year-old realtor was a cheerleader for ten years, is a hopeless romantic, but has found that finding a man that recognizes she is special, that she is the catch, not them, has been difficult.
Children (3.3): Adriana doesn’t have children, but would, in a perfect world, have three boys.
Racial Background (3.4): Is just Black
Father’s Occupation (3.11): Her dad is a therapist and a preacher
Family Background (3.11): Was raised in a small family
Final Decision (3.11): Choses Khalfani over Rashid partly based on her father saying that she and Rashid didn’t have chemistry.
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Alisha
After being on and off with the father of her children for over 4 years, the 38-year-old Alisha is looking for something new. Someone who is taller than her, Black, fine, looks like he can handle himself, a beard, and someone photogenic. But, it should be known, she isn’t traditional in the sense of wanting to be domestic. Not to imply she is messy or expect him to do everything, but don’t think she is going to be a 1950s housewife.
Occupation (Casting Special): Is a clinic manager for a medical practice
How many kids (3.3): She has two children.
Eliminated (3.5): Episode 4
Reunion Special (3.12): Is pregnant by someone she met after leaving the show.
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Wynter
This small business consultant from Houston was married, for two and a half years, with a man she met in church. But after 3 weeks he cheated and so she is under the impression she makes bad choices when it comes to men.
Final Decision (3.11): Despite not seeming strongly into Anthony, and more so hoping she’ll grow to love him, she chooses him as her end game pick.
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David
A self-described country boy, the 36-year-old country boy was a jock in high school, loves to ride horses, and his trouble is he loves hard and in the past was cheated on. Thus leading to some trust issues.
Occupation? (Casting Special): He is a chemical operator
Hometown (1.1): Is from Lufkin, Texas
Kids? (3.3): He doesn’t have kids.
Eliminated: Episode 3
After Show Chemistry (3.12): Is Dating Alex
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Jay
In many ways, you can see Jay, a 43-year-old real estate broker, as an old school and traditional man. Well, at least in his last marriage he tried to be. His focus was being a provider and after almost 5 years, it was realized that the marriage didn’t work. So, in order for his daughter to see the kind of relationship he grew up with, Jay filed for divorce and is now looking for love.
How Long Has His Parents Been Married (Casting Special): 40 years
Eliminated (3.10): Eliminated himself in episode 10 to be with and support Joy.
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Symone
Symone is a 37-year-old attorney, focused on injury cases, who doesn’t necessarily know how to turn off being an attorney. Mainly because being an attorney allows her to be herself, which is an aggressive Black woman. But, don’t take this as she doesn’t want to sometimes be sensitive, and with a man she feels comfortable in handling things. It’s just, finding a guy who can support and encourage her, yet also can get her to fallback has been hard.
Relationship with Father (Casting Special): Symone had a difficult relationship with her father and she credits that for the reason she was with a man for 7 years since he looked like her dad. But after some therapy with her dad, and repairing that relationship, she feels she has moved past those lingering feeling.
Dominican Republic (3.2): Formerly lived in the Dominican Republic and speaks Spanish
Parents’ Marriage (3.3): Parents have been married for 40+ years
Accomplishment (3.3): As a first-year attorney, an article she wrote was put into a legal magazine.
Eliminated: Episode 8
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Vulnerability is a luxury.
— Symone
Sam
After a failed engagement, and trying to make a relationship work with the mother of his second child, the 36-year-old visual artist and illustrator is back on the market and trying to find love.
A track and field coach, who went to Brown State University, and went so far as Olympic tryouts, has only had 3 serious relationships in her life. The first with a high school to college sweetheart, the second with a possessive man, and a third that went undefined. But, for the last 4 years, she has just been single since opening up has become difficult.
New York, New York (3.8): Went to New York when she was younger with $200, three bags, and found her way onto Essence magazine.
Eliminated (3.10): Eliminated herself in episode 10
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Kris (KG Smooth)
Kris is a 42-year-old man known for his radio persona, KG Smooth, and his radio career spans 20+ years. But, he isn’t just an entertaining on the radio, he is also a social activist whose last relationship was in 2012. So he is in dire need of a woman with some melanin.
This mother of one, who is a 41-year-old project coordinator for a pipeline company, can be described as a woman who put her daughter before herself, so her focus primarily was on being a provider. However, with her daughter grown, she is back out there and while she has recently had a significant relationship, there was bad timing there so she is single once more.
Edwin is a 39-year-old Iraq war veteran who loves Sex and the City, to the point it inspired the name of his business, of which he acts as a private chef.
Relationship History (Casting Special): He has had 3 serious relationships
Occupations (3.8): Has worked in law enforcement and was a personal trainer
Eliminated (3.10): Eliminated himself in episode 10.
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Shay
To truly prove your past doesn’t determine your future, Shay was pregnant at 16, yet still made her way through college, raised her daughter, and at 41 is a chef and doing the damn thing. Now, as for her dating life? Well, she dates based on how someone makes her feel over looks. I mean, if the man is ugly but is fine to her, that is her ugly man.
But, one thing she doesn’t like is how dating can feel like a sport. She wants to be pursued but not feel like the whole courtship is a game.
Nyaa owns a salon and is in deep within the hair care industry, after starting off as a hairstylist. One of the her main goals is having a child and while she does want to be married too, having a child is priority since her biological clock is ticking and after 4 miscarriages, there is a worry her time is running out.
Childhood Dreams (Casting Special): As a child, she wanted to be a housewife
Started Dating (3.3): She started to date around 15.
Eliminated/Quit: Episode 7
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You can like what you see, but not what they say.
— Nyya (3.2)
Raymond
Tank, Ginuwine, Angie Stone, those are but some of the names Raymond, a 52-year-old guitarist, and overall musician, has toured with. But while his professional life has hit some good highs, the most he has to show from his relationships are the 5 kids he has, of which he has 3 girls and two boys.
Abstinence (3.3): Has been practicing abstinence for over 40 days.
How Many Women Bore His Children? (3.3): 4
Eliminated: Episode 2
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I’m not looking for love. I found love. I’m looking for someone to share love.
— Raymond
Alex
32-year-old Alex is a software specialist whose longest relationship was 3 years, and that relationship ended due to him cheating. And for the last two years she has been celibate and noted, while not waiting for marriage to end that tenure, she is looking to end it with someone she trusts and loves.
Football Team Played For (Casting Special): Played for the Florida Firecats.
Final Decision (3.11): Chooses Wynter
Reunion Special (3.12): He and Wynter are on a break due to having a disagreement about finances that he didn’t take well to.
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We’re not perfect, but we are perfected.
— Anthony (3.6)
Season 2 Cast Members
London
41-year-old London is a sales manager for the mid-south area who comes from a line of football players, his dad playing for the Baltimore Colts for example. His preference is athletic women who want kids.
Additional Information About London
He is from Houston, Texas
Can cook
His parents divorced when he was 7 and moved to California with his mom and got into a bit of trouble. Leading to, about 8 years later, him moving to Houston to live with his dad and become the man we see on camera.
London’s longest relationship is 8 years.
Considers himself to have three personalities ranging from Mr. Dunlap, London, and D-Lab.
How Do Things End For Them?
London ends up with Devyne.
Darin
35-year-old Darin is a personal trainer and fitness club owner formerly from Ohio. He is at the point of his life where he feels secure financially and professionally so he is seeking a partner who wants him, doesn’t need him.
Additional Information About Darrin
His ex proposed to him in an attempt to get him to stay in Ohio and fit the lifestyle she wanted.
He is a strong believer in the zodiac and identifies with his sign – Capricorn.
Has two labrador dogs that have been in his life for 7 years.
His ex is named Courtney and while broken up, she is still very much part of his life and he is thinking about starting a business with her.
1.8: Reveals his father cheated on his mother
How Do Things End For Them?
Darrin ends up with Ashima.
Chimuka (Chika)
A 42-year-old barber by trade who now works from home and is seeking a woman that compliments. He has, thus far, had three relationships and the last one lasted two years and the one before 10. It isn’t clear how long the first one lasted but he notes the two-year relationship failed due to him not speaking up.
Additional Information About Chimuka (Chika)
Has a mutual friend which connects him with Devyne.
Eliminated Episode 3
How Do Things End For Them?
From what it seems, Chika remains single.
Alexis
33-year-old Alexis has worked in the software sales industry for 10 years and her longest relationship was 6 years. She prides herself in being a no bulls*** alpha woman who would like to find someone who being submissive around makes her comfortable.
Additional Information About Alexis
Notes she loves competition.
Says, as of episode 1, she was single for two years
Is from Kansas City.
When she was younger she got bullied, fought a lot, and was in and out of juvenile detention facilities.
Wants to go to South Africa, and have 3 kids.
Grew up an only child.
Her last relationship was a year and a half and ended due to her partner, at the time, losing their mother and on top of the issues they already had, it was too much of a strain on the relationship.
How Do Things End For Them?
She is still dating Brent, but they aren’t using titles yet.
Devyne
44-year-old Devyne is a director of sales, who also does real estate, and doesn’t really approach guys. Which sucks for her since, in Atlanta, she feels men are spoiled and expect women to take on that traditional role of being the pursuers.
As for what she is looking for? Muscles, abs, dimples, someone who is transparent and can laugh at themselves, and also isn’t looking to have kids.
Additional Information About Devyne
Her ex was 34
She was married for 6 years to a person she met only a month before signing papers.
How Do Things End For Them?
She is with London and considers all the Alexis drama not to matter for it came before he committed to her.
Kimber
34-year-old Kimber is a realtor looking to settle down. She has been done dirty in the past, but many of her exes will note she is the best they ever had – as a girlfriend. But now she is ready to not be the best ex but just someone’s current and find something real. Also, in time, have a few kids.
Additional Information About Kimber
Has been single 8 months and was with the last person for around 2 years before they were locked up.
Eliminated Episode 6
How Do Things End For Them?
If Nephew Tommy had his way, Jimmy may have been given another chance.
Brent
39-year-old Brent is an entrepreneur whose focus is opening behavioral health agencies that are marketed towards assisting at-risk youth. His signature is his grey hair, which he acquired at 13, and he considers himself an aggressive dater. It’s just, as a boyfriend, it seems he hasn’t often made himself available.
Additional Information About Brent
Raised by a single mom.
Was formerly married to someone he had a verbally abusive relationship with.
His marriage lasted 4 years and both of his parents have been divorced twice.
Does martial arts in his spare time.
How Do Things End For Them?
He is dating Alexis.
Tondy
The 42-year-old singer originally from Detroit, Michigan puts it out there she is like Miss Parker, from The Parkers, of her neighborhood. She also makes it know she likes tall men who are slinging and isn’t afraid to compete to get her someone who fits her preference.
Additional Information About Tondy
She has a school-aged daughter.
Grew up a tomboy who would box and play ball.
Has past trauma dealing with exes trying to control her.
How Do Things End For Them?
After Mario decided to break up with her for Reva, she became single.
Jimmy
From Decatur, Georgia, the soon to be 40 real estate agent says he dates frequently and notes he is needy. Also, that he is divorced after being married for 3 years.
Additional Information About Jimmy
Claims he was single a year and a half in episode 1
Eliminated Episode 5
How Do Things End For Them?
Despite how toxic he may seem, he may have been given another chance with Kimber.
Nina
The 33-year-old massage therapist has never been married and notes she spent her 20s dealing with her emotional baggage. However, now she is ready to date, find a man to have kids with, and also someone who her 7-year-old son can see join their family.
Additional Information About Nina
Originally from St. Louis, Missouri.
Has no contact with her child’s father.
Eliminated Episode 4
How Do Things End For Them?
We learn, in unseen footage, she made a connection with Terrell.
Mario
The tax accountant from Jackson, Mississippi, who has his own firm now, is an adrenaline junkie with three daughters, at 25, 18, and 6, as well as a grandson. Also, in his 41 years of life, he was married for 6 of them to an alpha female. The type of woman he does not like.
Additional Information About Mario
Also works in real estate and is off 8 months out of the year.
Ex is named Latasha and broke up with him over being too controlling.
How Do Things End For Them?
He ended up with Reva days after breaking up with Tondy.
Reva
A daughter of pastors, the Gary, Indiana native is an IT Professional who has three kids, is a veteran, divorced after being with someone for 11 years, and got pregnant from her first sexual experience.
Additional Information About Reva
She is 43
Reva is used to dating men in the military
Has been in ATL for 5 years and has only dated around two people in the last couple of years.
Enjoys going to church, shooting, and experiencing a good nut – the three most important things in her life.
Is a grandmother
How Do Things End For Them?
Despite Mario choosing Tondy, she ends up with him in the long run.
Kerry
From Pontiac, Michigan, the 51-year-old Kerry works in pharmaceutical sales for a diabetes company and has multiple failed marriages. In fact, he has been single for around 6 years. However, one of the reasons could be him being a single father who put major time and effort into his son’s rearing. Especially since Kerry grew up without a father.
Additional Information About Kerry
Eliminated Episode 7
How Do Things End For Them?
As of the reunion show, we’re left assuming he is still looking for love.
Ieashia
37-year-old Ieashia is a pediatric nurse who loves kids and left her former marriage after it became abusive. The situation was so dire that she took her kids to live in a shelter with her for three months. Because of this, she has a passion for volunteering, especially for the homeless, and seeks someone who likes to give back.
Additional Information About Ieashia
Has been divorced about 4-5 years
Eliminated Episode 4
How Do Things End For Them?
Ends up with Mike, per the reunion special part 2 and they recently got engaged.
Terrell
A college veteran advisor, and pastors child, Terrell, from Milwaukee, Wisconsin, considers himself the bad boy who didn’t get caught. At least until he lost his virginity at 18 to a 26-year-old woman who exposed him to his momma.
Additional Information About Terrell
With growing up in a two-parent household, Terrell wants that for his future family.
Is 42 years old
Eliminated Episode 3
How Do Things End For Them?
Thanks to his kindness and a gift, it seems him and Nina may have found a relationship.
Christina
33-year-old lawyer, focusing on various fields, Christina, considers herself aggressive, ambitious, and someone who likes to party and travel. She also is a protector and likes a man who can lead when called upon.
Additional Information About Christina
Practices personal injury law, litigation, and more.
Wants two kids
Eliminated Episode 1
How Do Things End For Them?
We’re not told if Christina has found love after the show, but it is made clear she didn’t find it with anyone on it.
Angie
An author/ publisher from St. Louis, Missouri, 37-year-old Angie is looking for a handful of things from a man. Money, good sex, and someone who will treat her well. Also, they need to have something edgy to them, but a subtle, calm, edginess.
Additional Information About Angie
Is not religious
Eliminated Episode 2
How Do Things End For Them?
We’re not told if Nina has found love after the show, but it is made clear she didn’t find it with anyone on it.
Michael
40-year-old truck driver Michael is from Beaufort, Georgia and considers himself a people person. He is seeking out a woman who is put together.
Additional Information About Michael
Eliminated Episode 2
How Do Things End For Them?
Behind the scenes, we learn him and Ieashia have become a thing and they recently got engaged.
John
Digital C.O.O of World Star Hit Radio and their marketing agency counterpart John, he is from Jefferson County, Georgia and considers himself a dresser. One that could give Puff Daddy and Steve Harvey a run for their money. Also, he notes he is very spiritual and has taken a vow of celibacy until marriage. Perhaps due to dealing with a materialistic ex and wanting a woman who is down for him and not trying to collect a child support check (the last part we added in, he did not say that).
Additional Information About John
He is 36
Eliminated Episode 1
How Do Things End For Them?
We learn he is married, and the person he ended up marrying he knew previous to the show and getting eliminated helped him realize she was the one.
Ashima
Ashima
A comedian from Mobile, Alabama who has your usual dose of vulgar comedy. She is looking for a guy who will take her seriously and look beyond how funny she is and how easily they can get comfortable around her. For it appears, at the age of 39, she is too often friend-zoned and after 4 to 5 years of lacking a serious relationship, she is looking for a change.
Additional Information About Ashima
1.8: Reveals she was raised by a single mom
How Do Things End For Them?
She and Darrin are going strong and she is slowly, but surely, getting used to his dogs.
Season 1 Cast Members
Alexx
Who Is Alexx
Alexx is 34, owns a trucking business, and he touts himself to be an everyday, average, guy. His first real connection is with Tiffany, but with multiple women interested in Alex, she may have some serious competition on her hands.
At The End Of Season 1
After realizing he can’t work things out with Tiffany, Alexx ultimately chooses Ashlee. The key thing to that decision is that she is not confrontational. Yet, with them only really starting to talk when things got bad with Tiffany, it’s hard to say if they left the honeymoon stage.
Aaron
Aaron: I’m dating for purpose. I do have a 10 year old son.
Who Is Aaron
At 34, Aaron has one 10-year-old son, and seems to want to settle down. You know, give his kid a family environment. Though, considering how Aaron is with the ladies, you may question if he is just there for some fun more than anything. Granted, his style could just be showing off his abs, getting a little touchy, and that’s what works for him. But, like with Alexx, Aaron is at the top of many a woman’s list so the competition will be fierce.
At The End Of Season 1
After “Keeping an open mind” for most of the season, Aaron ultimately realizes he isn’t probably ready to love. At least to the point of having the last woman eliminated, Angel, meet his son.
Stormy
Who Is Stormy
Stormy is a 39-year-old, international, DJ who has tattoos, a funky style, and usually meets guys in the same environment she works in – though not while working. Her type is usually tall, dark and handsome but, in a opposites attract twist, she finds herself taken by the average height pastor, Chris.
Episode 4 Update
In episode 4, Stormy cements that idea that you can’t go by basic perception to get her. She reveals, 5 years ago, she was divorced and one of the main things which kept that marriage alive, towards the end, was her husband’s kids. She loved playing the role of stepmom and even to this day are close to those kids.
Eliminates herself Episode 9
Shanta
Who Is Shanta
At 43, and an entrepreneur, the main thing established about the rarely focused Shanta, in episode 1 at least, is that she is aggressive. She has no problem going after a man and boy does she.
Eliminated Episode 5
Tiffany
Who Is Tiffany
The VP of Community Development, in an undisclosed company, of course, is 41 and is still relatively new to Georgia. She has only been in the state 5 years and believes this air about her, which leads to people thinking she is bougie, is because she can be a bit reserved. Why? Well, that isn’t 100% clear. What she does make clear is that she can switch up if she needs to. It is noted she grew up in the hood, used to rap a little bit, and while it isn’t clear if she can fight now, fighting over a boy did give her a scar on the right side of her face – all thanks to 133 stitches.
Episode 4 Update
A few details are added to Tiffany’s story like her main gig is working for a bank, but she has quite a bit of side hustles. Including hosting art events to allow local women to express themselves in wine and paint opportunities.
Eliminates herself Episode 9
Michael
Who Is Michael
The import business owner, Michael, is a 39-year-old man who seems ready to have kids. Problem is, he might be an Ankh. For with him talking to Shea and making it sound like a woman’s purpose is bearing children, he says the type of things which starts ticking off boxes. Add in him being the type who talks as if he doesn’t know how to approach women and there could be some potentially dumb things said as the season continues.
Episode 4 Update
Arguably, Michael is simply a man who knows what he wants and doesn’t have time to figure women out. He doesn’t enjoy meeting a woman’s “Representative” or whatever false persona they put out there when meeting men. He’d rather you be upfront and honest because that is what he is. Sometimes to a fault but just like he wants to get to know the real you, warts and all, he is willing to be just as open.
At The End Of Season 1
Michael ultimately chooses Shea and with the love she has for him, she decides she is open, ready, and willing to have a child with Michael.
Chris
Who Is Chris
Chris is a 49-year-old pastor who was married for 15 years and has been single for 12. He tries his best to make is a point he isn’t some boring, holier than thou, type of pastor. In fact, he tries to make it seem like they, the pastor and himself, are two sides of the same person. However, the ladies are a bit mixed on the idea of becoming his First Lady in his congregation.
Eliminated Episode 2
Paco
Paco: Let them know who Paco is. Let them feel Paco.
Who Is Paco
A 50-year-old Market Owner, or entrepreneur, Paco has the most baggage. He’s been married twice, cheated in both marriages, and he has a bit of a verbal confrontation with Tiffany over cheating. Specifically, him taking a woman back if she cheated. Which becomes a big deal for the person he revealed his past to, Courtney, puts all his dirty out there.
Eliminated Episode 1
Melinda
Who Is Melinda
A 45-year-old medical device salesperson, like many of the women on the show, Melinda feels like she got everything she could want but a man to share it with. Her eye specifically is on Aaron who she gets a little touchy with. Nothing sexual, just a hand on a thigh or knee. But with her just really having eyes on him, the other ladies better watch out.
Quit Episode 4
Angel
Who Is Angel
Angel is another person who kind of gets neglected in episode 1. The 35-year-old young woman, in software sales, only gets highlighted for taking note how hard it is for women to date in Atlanta. Specifically keeping themselves up and looking perfect to attract men. She’ll be one of Melinda’s competition for Aaron since he takes an interest in her.
At The End Of Season 1
After being connected to Aaron throughout the season, almost eliminated once, never really checking out the other men, Angel ultimately ends up eliminated in the finale. Though, rather than exiting as Melinda and Stormy did, she exits without being too upset and is quite understanding.
Kebba
Who Is Kebba
After Aaron and Alexx, Kebba, 37-year-old Marketing Manager, Kebba, might be in third place. The half-Gambian man claims to have never cheated on a significant other and pushes it is because he grew up with 5 sisters as well as his mother. As for his dad’s part in this? Well, his father left the family when Kebba was 6.
Eliminated Episode 2
Dr. Lexy
Who Is Dr. Lexy
Honestly, that is a good damn question. Outside of knowing she is a 45-year-old insurance broker, with kids, not much is revealed about Dr. Lexy. What is she a doctor of? Your guess is as good as mine. All that is made clear is that she is extra, believes in always going the extra mile, and while she may not get much screen time in episode 1? Ha, something tells me that’ll change as the season continues.
Episode 2 Update
Dr. Lexy reveals to us that all that we see that may look like her being extra actually came from her growing up a rather shy child. However, after going into the armed forces, and finding confidence, she learned to fully embrace herself. As for her look? It comes from that being one of the ways she likes to express herself. Though, for the right man, she’ll tone it down – only a little.
Eliminated Episode 3
Ashlee
Who Is Ashlee
This 31-year-old speech therapist, for kids, is perhaps one of the most comical ladies on the show. With her fan, that she keeps holding out like a microphone, she presses a few men. Not in an overtly aggressive way, but definitely pushes the more quiet ones to tell her about them. As well as the other ladies she often finds herself sitting with.
Her prospect currently seems to be Devan who didn’t click with a huge amount of girls but did with her. Maybe because her brothers are similar to him or, because she works with kids, and their similar age, she just gets him. Hopefully, we’ll find out soon enough.
Episode 2 Update
With many relationship troubles in her past, what Ashlee is looking for is someone who will wholly be hers. Not someone she shares with his main check, or be the main chick who gets cheated on. Just a good man.
At The End Of Season 1
Despite learning Alexx cheated on someone, which damn near leads you to believe they’re done, with that being in the past, and him seemingly growing since then, she lets it go. Thus leading to her choosing to be with Alexx and finally letting him kiss her.
Shatava
Who Is Shatava
Shatava is yet another woman who doesn’t get much screen time. Leading us to only know she is 35, a fashion boutique owner, and she sees this show as a straight up competition. Meaning, she will, absolutely, kick off someone else’s romantic prospect if it may threaten her meeting somebody. She does not care about any woman on that show but her.
Episode 2 Update
Shatava is the type who does a lot for others but doesn’t seem to have someone who could do the same for her – a hero, if you would. So that is what she is trying to find. Someone who doesn’t need to ask, or attempt to coerce, her making time for them. She’d rather have a guy who has his own thing, but is still the type of person who would reciprocate the investment she puts into them. Especially considering what matters it could take away from.
Eliminates herself Episode 9
Shea
Who Is Shea
Print shop owner Shea is a 44-year-old woman with a son who just graduated from high school. For nearly the entire first episode, she is locked in conversation with Michael and seemingly is the one for him. She wouldn’t mind being married, the idea of having another kid isn’t ideal, but she’d do it. So it seems she is ready to ride off into the sunset. Problem is, the show doesn’t work like that and with Michael having a laser focus on her, it may get him eliminated.
Episode 6 Update
While it seemed the main reason Shea didn’t want to have another child was between her son being grown, alongside her ex not participating much in helping her, another factor is she experienced post-partum depression. Something which took her to the lowest point she has ever been in life and she doesn’t want to revisit that feeling.
At The End Of Season 1
With her mom’s approval, consistency and honesty shown throughout all the time she has known him, Shea decides to let herself fall in love with Michael. Even to the point of having a child with him.
Darnell
Who Is Darnell
The 36-year-old Darnell is probably the most timid of all the men on here. Yes, he has a job, is a commercial electrician, has all his teeth, good credit, is in good shape, but he doesn’t put himself out there. Darnell comes off as the kind of guy, call me a hypocrite for saying this, who thinks being on a dating app, just not being at home, means he is putting himself out there.
Though, he has a reason for being timid. His former fiancée cheated on him and that crushing blow led him to being single for three years. Add in he doesn’t seem as aggressive as most dudes and it already has led to some ladies not seeing him capable of being more than a friend.
Eliminated Episode 1
Devan
Devan: I’m an artist and entrepreneur, and then I co-direct a platform.
Who Is Devan
Depending who you ask, 30-year-old Devan is either self-absorbed or just someone who requires you being an active participant in the conversation. For with him passionate about being an actor, model, musician, activist, and wanting to make a documentary, he will easily steamroll you. Which makes a lot of the ladies not so sure about him.
Eliminated Episode 1
Rita
Who Is Rita
Outside of learning she is a 41-year-old business development manager, I can’t tell you a thing. The first episode gives her maybe one or two scenes, and they aren’t that eventful. She just joins some of the other ladies in breaking up the cocoon Shea and Michael had going on. That’s about it.
Making it seem, if the men had ability to eliminate first, she’d probably be one of the first to go.
Episode 3 Update
In episode 3 we finally get to know something about Rita and it is that she, in her last relationship, of three years, had a side chick problem. However, because her man had a stronger sex drive, she was cool as long as said woman knew her place. But, with her wanting kids, and that guy, who she was in a on again and off again relationship with, having two and not wanting more, she dropped him. It isn’t clear if she is over him though.
Eliminated Episode 7
Christina
Who Is Christina
Christina is probably only 2nd or 3rd to Ashlee in terms of getting her personality on display. The 32-year-old marketing specialist, like many of the ladies, doesn’t get a whole lot of one on one time, if any, but does keep herself from getting lost in whatever group she is sitting in. Mostly by inserting herself in conversation.
Episode 2 Update
On top of learning she and her family aren’t much for drinking, we also learn she is a bishop’s daughter.
Eliminated Episode 3
Courtney
Who Is Courtney
With being a flight attendant, it makes Courtney’s desire for a family, including children, a bit difficult. For despite being 36, it seems a lot of people assume she got men near every airport and that’s just not true. As for what we learn beyond her wanting kids? Just that she is able and willing to put people on blast. She pretty much is the one who likely will have Paco on the cutting block.
Quit Episode 7
Tommy Miles As The Host
Who Is Tommy?
Tommy: I’ll be here to guide you through, give you some advice.
Tommy is a small part who plays a big role. He’s the one who facilitates the decision of who is and won’t be continuing on the show. Plus, he offers a little bit of commentary on what’s going on.
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Does everyone on ready to love wear veneers? They all have perfectly straight white teeth.
Does everyone on ready to love have veneers? Every last one of them seem to have perfect teeth.
I’m mad you said that lol
Can “Ready to love” consider a BBW (big and beautiful), version? I know you have to have a variety of ladies in your pool. However, I felt it was unfair for full figured sisters like Tessa, who almost got eliminated ea